7 Ways to Manage Caregiver Stress
1. Self-care is crucial.
Prioritizing the well-being of the person you are caring for while sacrificing your own is noble but can be detrimental. Failing to care for yourself increases risk of caregiver burnout, which compromises your ability to provide quality care and negatively impacts the person for whom you are caring. Self-care is critically important. Find ways to reduce stress. Working out and breathing exercises are helpful. Make time for yourself, too. Even short breaks go a long way to help recharge your mind and your body.
2. Ask for help.
Support is vital. Family, friends, community, and professional caregivers can all lend a helping hand in different ways, but only if you ask. Don’t be hesitant to ask someone to assist with errands, help with transportation to medical appointments or spend time with the person you are caring for, so that you have a break. Distance isn’t always an obstacle either. Family, friends, and people in your community can assist with coordinating in-person or virtual appointments and making phone calls—all you need to do is ask! The Alzheimer’s Foundation of America’s (AFA) Helpline (866-232-8484) is here for you, too.
3. Prepare as much as possible.
Caring for someone with dementia often involves a complex array of long-term medical, legal, and financial issues. Deal with these decisions as early as possible, with strong consideration for personal wishes, to help reduce stress later. Addressing these matters early also gives the individual the opportunity to have a more active role in their care and the decision-making process.
4. Build your skills.
Key skills for any care partner include communication, understanding safety considerations, recognizing behaviors as a form of communication, and managing activities of daily living. Get to know doctors and other care team members. Ask questions, express concerns and be involved.
5. Be flexible.
While you can’t control every situation, you can work to better manage your reactions. While it may seem impossible at times, try to have a positive and accepting attitude; be flexible and understand the need to adapt. Take things one day at a time and handle challenges as best you can. Don’t feel that you have to deal with everything at once.
6. Build empathy.
Hugs, gentle touch, and compassion help you and the person you are caring for feel connected and loved. Kindness, humor, and creativity are essential. Manage your expectations and remain patient.
Building empathy and maintaining compassion is essential for both you and the person you care for. Try to comprehend what it is to have this type of illness. Putting yourself in their shoes, while also recognizing your own losses, can help place things in perspective and alleviate stress.
7. Connect with others.
We know that COVID-19 has made it difficult to connect with loved ones in person, especially for high-risk groups like the elderly. Try setting up a weekly or monthly video date with a family member or friend (maybe even over dinner!). The AFA also offers free weekly telephone-based support groups that are facilitated by licensed social workers to help give you a space to connect and share with one another. Find your support network and surround yourself with positive connections, both old and new!
Feeling stressed? We’re here to help. Contact AFA’s Helpline at 866-232-8484 to speak with a licensed social worker or connect through our website (www.alzfdn.org).